They Also Say

Traditional wisdom is extensive enough to support nearly any decision.

• “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” and “Out of sight, out of mind.”

  One promises that distance deepens affection. The other reports that distance deletes it.

• “Better safe than sorry.” and “Nothing ventured, nothing gained.”

  One protects the downside. The other points out that the downside was the only thing on offer.

• “Birds of a feather flock together.” and “Opposites attract.”

  One observes that similarity bonds. The other insists that difference does.

• “Clothes make the man.” and “Never judge a book by its cover.”

  One admits that appearance governs reception. The other asks that it not.

• “Look before you leap.” and “He who hesitates is lost.”

  One recommends caution. The other warns that delay creates its own risk.

• “Many hands make light work.” and “Too many cooks spoil the broth.”

  One praises the crowd. The other blames it. The kitchen is the disputed territory.

• “The early bird gets the worm.” and “Good things come to those who wait.”

  One rewards speed. The other rewards stillness. They cannot both be consulted at once.

• “You are never too old to learn.” and “You cannot teach an old dog new tricks.”

  One holds the door open indefinitely. The other has already locked it and blamed the dog.