Birds of a Feather Flock Together vs. Opposites Attract

“Birds of a feather flock together.”

and

“Opposites attract.”

Why They Conflict

One observes that similarity bonds. The other insists that difference does.

When the First May Be Useful

Selecting collaborators, roommates, or anyone with whom a refrigerator will be shared.

When the Second May Be Useful

Explaining an attraction that the similarity theory has declined to explain.

Official Ruling

Official ruling: Opposites attract; similars endure. Attraction is a spark. Flocking is a lease.


On record: Birds of a feather flock together. · Opposites attract.